All The Sh!t I Didn’t Get Done In 2016

What Up TIM Tribe?!?!

So I recently started following this swanky stylist chick Hilary Rushford, and she is so on point for me right now. Part of my reason for this post was inspired by her. Like she intuitively created a message for me to share with you tonight…

I woke up this morning thinking about ALLLLL the sh!t that I didn’t get done in 2016.

So in turn– This is how the Universe works.

–I got an email from Hilary that talked something about the shame + failure that she felt for stuff she didn’t get done in 2016… So since she shared hers with me… I am going to share some of mines with you!

What did you NOT do this year because you weren’t on your sh!t?

I am going to be extremely transparent here because, ultimately I did get a lot done… But I could have managed my time sooooooo much better. And I felt like sh!t for not getting it done.

So here is my sh!t list:

I didn’t stick to my plan to create a series of videos.

I didn’t finish our new website.

I didn’t complete the editing of my book.

I didn’t start (1) mastermind group.

I didn’t create any passive income.

I didn’t focus on my homeschool families.

I didn’t complete my Hypnotherapist Certification I started a year ago.

I didn’t finish my HIGHLY ANTICIPATED Album.

I didn’t raise $100,000 for Phase II of our perinatal health worker project.


The list can go on and on, but I will stop here.


As we prepare to walk in to 2017 Like A BOSS, we are observing space and time to make sure that we manage our projects with deeper intention this time.


So how are we going to do that right?


How do we make more time for Magnetic sh!t to happen in 2017?

The InTune Mother Team has been working hard to answer this question for a minute until we took some advice from the wonderful Aprille Franks Hunt to plan a quarter at a time. 

After I attended the webinar I was like, this is easy. I can do THIS… And I did. I created my vision board and loaded up my calendar to make sure that I moved with passion and purpose as a transformational and inspirational entrepreneur– 

Plus hosting our year end training and spending 5 passion filled days with some AMAZING change agents… I am super pumped about 2017. Because 2016 was a beast… And I’s tired BOSS

So in ALL HUMILITY, I am excited about the wonders of what 2017 has to offer our small organization, as we continue to be transparent, and creatively adaptive, with our family centered mission.

2017 Means More Freedom. And. More Self Care. And. More Family Time.

This is a totally different approach. SO– when you see me working my UNAPOLOGETIC BLACK GIRL MAGIC–

I AM taking more time to do what I love for me. What makes me feel good. What makes ME happy.  And that is being creative.

In 2017 I will Complete:

Complete my Hypnotherapist Certification 

Complete content for profitable online courses and workshops

Complete user-friendly homeschool platform 

Complete INNATE Certification

Complete plans to launch Birth Worker Retreat

Complete plans for out of the country travel with family

Complete the purchase a few plots of land

Complete my book AND (The Black Plague Project)

Complete booking for high paying teaching performances

Complete 6-Figure revenue goal


Because I am honest with myself, I know that I have to get more structure about my personal and business life.  So I am naming 2017 as my Gap Year… By doing so, I am inviting you to join me as an accountability partner to #GoTheDistance in 2017! Come check in with me on Periscope @The_InTune_Mother 

As I take you on a journey inside of The Original Mother… Into The Power of  TheMagnetic Vagina where we will focus on holding sacred space for 2017.


Hey I Got BIG Goals and I KNOW You Do Too!

So what do you want to manifest in 2017? NOT hope to do… But get that sh!t done!!! 

With the right MAGNETIC blueprint, you can’t loose.

Be a part of the Magnetic Vagina Masterclass… The door is open…




Not Your Usual Canvas For Spring Cleaning

Well… Well… Well…

Stomach flu vs. Allergic Reaction

It has been a pretty exciting week! My intuition has been on high frequency, casting new ideas and concepts. Working with my mentors on the power of deliberate intentions. Learning life lessons about my purpose as a wife, mother, and friend. With all of this new moon energy everything was laid out for the perfect Spring Break, right? Well I won’t complain — just not what I expected. Or – Did I?

Clear Observation

Well… the stomach flu hit the children pretty hard this week. It was like a domino affect. First our middle son, then the oldest, and now our toddler. Our children just so happen to be asthmatic, prone to eczema outbreaks, and allergic reactions (food and environmental). My husband and I had talked about doing a spring detox, but procrastination got the best of us. Or – Did it?

Well… when you do a detox you are giving your body the deep clean that it needs to get back on track with optimum flow… Right? Freeing it up from all the trash that you tried so hard to avoid through the winter. Well lone behold, we got the detox, just not the way we expected.

The Mystery Mix

Well… sometimes we let our children try out certain foods. Trail mix is one snack that I like to make on our own… And I use Chex cereal because, they have a gluten-free brand. But this time, we strayed the path for our best health. After a aseries of various symptoms, including gastric upset, diarrhea, and vomiting, I read the back of the bag to see that it contained all the color dyes that we aim to stay clear from. Hey, when you know better, you should do better, right?

A Quick Lesson In Sacral/Solar-Plexus Detox

Well… since we already knew the dangers of artificial food coloring, we had to be accountable of our part in the bad stomach. So we went on to do our detox and energy work. The main focus had been all about intention. What we want for our children is the best so we have to maintain our posture in doing so. No slumping or dragging our feet.

Well… on Wednesday morning as I engaged the children in a bit of music therapy, it became clear to me why the children were having such an experience over the store-bought trail mix. It was simple to me, but I am not a medical doctor, so don’t judge me for “Free-Styling” on what insight I gathered from all this.

Well… as I was singing one of my favorite songs, “Feel So Good” in a chant style rhythm. As I begin to circle my eldest son, while he lay in prone position, I tell him to just relax I gently touch his belly, feeling the low vibrational energy trying to leave his body. I explain to him my own interpretation of his sickness. I tell him the placement of the chakra system in his body. When I stop at his abdominal region, he tells me, “It was the color dyes, huh mom?” I then explain how the human body is not made to consume artificial colors. The body is like a master computer that can only read like programming. The sacral and solar plexus regions of his body were under attack by artificial intelligence.

Well… I go on to tell him that his system had been compromised because, we allowed him to have artificial food coloring. Which he will not have to worry about again. I also explained that these dyes are a contaminant to the human body, and the body reads these as a threat.  I told him, sometimes it takes longer to show up in others, or can sometimes go misdiagnosed as a stomach virus or food poisening — when it can be as simple as an allergic reaction. Like I said, I am no doctor, but I think I’m big on self-directed reserch. Food color can cause allergic reactions that result in similar symptoms as gastroenteritis.

Because gastroenteritis is associated, with viral and bacterial infections, I did not count this out. Be that I have boy children, who are always being told to wash your hands, stay out of your nose, and pants, but little ones are not as concerned, with proper hygiene as we adults are. It was just ironic that they had eaten that (colorful) snack, which later led to a 1, 2, 3 knock out. This led me to the thought that we put out bodies at risk when we step out of alignment, with what is natural and organic. Our seven-year-old sure knows about it now. As he asked me if being sick can be good for you. I answered him by saying, “No one likes to be sick, but sometimes the body needs to reset or (detox) itself , especially when it has had an alien invasion.” Hey, don’t even judge my technique. I have to meet them where they are. The five-year-old and the two-year-old… still have some time to go before they get it… But rest assure that our eldest son will be reading the labels from this point moving forward. —

*** here are a list of side effects associated with these carcinogenic additives***

Get Well ~ Concluding thought:

Parenting is trial and error. There is not a sure shot way to parent your child. We can choose this or that as valid and practical, or magical and whimsical. I just flow with what feels right to me. And when I am out of alignment, I am taught to get right back on track. This can increase ones parenting skills intuitively. Learning that dis-ease, pain, sickness, is a time for rest, resetting our systems, and becoming deeper engaged to the energy that is allowed into your environment, makes a wold of difference. As a parent of children with food allergies, we have learned that not every event is worth the ER.

I can count on my hand how many times we have visited a hospital room for an emergency. As long as we maintain our dietary standards, we are within normal limits of good health. So the next time you think about skipping out on your regular household treats…

… refer back to this blog post and just say, “NO” to artificial food color dyes!



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